What is
Baby Wearing; Why Should I?
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A newborn baby feels secure
when allowed the movement, closeness, sounds, and warmth
of a proper fitting sling and instinctual parenting. Cribs,
mechanical swings, strollers and other gadgets are often
sterile, cold environmements filled with the wrong kinds
of stimulation and not enough of the right kind. Close contact
with a human, especially a parent, is best for babies during
their quick early development.
As they grow into toddlers,
the baby wearing, attached
and instinctual parenting style carries through and your
toddler is more secure and has developed well. Slings are
a wonderful tool from newborns through toddlerhood.
Getting
Back to Basics with Babywearing
Why don’t more parents wear their babies? Maybe it‘s because we
just don‘t see other people do it. It’s not the norm. Babywearing
is actually an extension of pregnancy, which in turn is part of the overall
curve of parenting. Good parenting results in happy, secure and intelligent
kids. Babies who are worn tend to cry less than others. They are more aware
of their caregivers and the world around them because they spend their days
observing interesting occurrences rather than sitting in a chair, staring into
space.
Many times while I was out with
my daughter, she would fall asleep in the sling. It always
gave me a proud maternal feeling to slip the sling over my
head and place her, undisturbed and still cradled in the
sling, in the car seat. Considering that my first baby never
slept for more than three consecutive hours until she was
about one and a half years old, one can imagine how thankful
I was for the nurturing power of a baby sling. This was one
piece of baby paraphernalia that actually made my days a
little easier.
Nursing:
It’s More than Breastfeeding – And Every Mother
Can Do It!
In your arms or snuggled alongside you, your baby is nurtured by the snuggly
warmth of your body and comforted by your familiar scent (pheromones). He hears
the beat of your heart and the sound of your voice. His neurons and hormones
program him to desire and flourish in this environment — a means of ensuring
his protection, survival and optimal development. And when allowed, your baby’s
powerful imprint on your pheromonal messages is second only to his programmed
need and yearning for sucking.
Science has demonstrated how
a baby’s optimal development occurs through his neurological
and hormonal responses to these planned inputs. Providing
these stimuli for your baby means providing the advantages,
as well.
The following baby wearing basics are provided by My Precious Kid™.
Health
benefits of baby wearing
1) A baby's body is still soft and forming and therefore is subject to become
hurt if kept in positions that are unnatural or uncomfortable for long periods
of time. A baby sling holds the baby in a natural curled up "ball",
just the way they were carried inside the womb.
2) Using a backpack or front
pack carrier puts pressure on the base of a baby's spine
and also forces the legs to be apart. Both of these can cause
the baby to be extremely uncomfortable.
3) Babies who are carried often
in a baby sling tend to develop the neck and back muscles
which will help to achieve balance to sit and stand rapidly.
4) The baby sling distributes
the weight of the baby over the shoulder, back and hip of
the adult carrying the baby instead of putting all the weight
on the shoulders or thrusting out a hip. A sling is very
comfortable for the adult wearing it and can be switched
to the other shoulder if one is getting tired.
5) Baby slings make breastfeeding
discreetly an easy task. Babies held is slings nurse easier
and longer. Breastfed babies have IQ points 5-10 higher than
non-breastfed children. Breast milk is the perfect food that
has 70 ingredients not found in formula. Breast milk provides
antibodies, and immune builders for children.
Psychological Benefits
of babywearing
1) Using a baby sling reduces
the symptoms of colic. No one knows exactly what causes colic,
but babies that are carried in slings have reduced rates
of the crying and fussiness that is part of colic. A random,
controlled test reported by Pediatrics stated that the colic
symptoms were reduced by 43% during the day and 51% at night.
Think about that...your baby will cry half as much as she
does now!
2) Babies carried in a baby
sling are less clingy as they grow older, they become secure
and develop a good self-esteem. Instead of begging to be
picked up they are begging to be put down to explore.
3) A mom can still tend to other
children while using a baby sling. In fact, a mom can still
tend to everything she did before she had the new baby. Laundry,
dishes, cleaning, shopping can all be done with the baby
right next to her.
4) Babies have a hard time coping
with the world outside of the womb. It can seem very scary
and over stimulating for them to be left alone watching the
world go by. They have been inside mom for 9 months and then
are now just supposed to make it on their own. A sling can
be considered a "womb outside of the womb". It
holds the baby just like they were in the womb and keeps
him warm and cozy right next to mom. A baby sling helps ease
the transition to the outside world.
5) As baby gets a little bit
older, the baby sling can be used in different holds so that
he can see and experience the world while mom goes on with
her day. He learns more in the sling than he would in a swing
or crib where he would get bored and cranky.
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